"Getting ahead in a difficult profession requires avid faith in yourself. That is why some people with mediocre talent, but with great inner drive, go much further than people with vastly superior talent."
-Sophia Loren
Sometimes you look around at the people you see having great success and you may internalize saying "how did they get so far? They aren't even really that good!" First – stop saying that and start looking to that person for what they are doing right. Second – consider the quote above…
How many people do you know that have laser focus and get whatever they want simply by the fact that they are relentless and persistent with their efforts (ie the use their BEST talents)? I would be inclined to say that most "successful" people are not the most talented, rather they are the ones that maximize their talents best. Why do I say that? Because typically the naturally talented person thinks they can get by on talent alone (its called a "sense of entitlement".
Do this: Focus on you're your BEST talents, put the hard work in to back them up and help others utilize their best talents to support yours… you (and those around you) will find the success and rewards you seek!!
Have a great weekend… and use your talents for good… help someone you know move from "potential" to "powerful!"
* If you would like to read any of my previous motivations – you can access them at http://grow-learn-lead.blogspot.com/
Zachary Barker
BlackBerryGuy Division Manager
NationLink Wireless - "The BlackBerryGuys"
mobile | 615.207.2290
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Morning Motivator - Talent
Morning Motivator - Decisions
"Make up your mind and act decidedly. No good is ever done in this world by hesitation."
- Thomas Henry Huxley
Have you ever known someone that seemed to know exactly what they and exactly how to get there? I did and I spoke with him about how he was so decided.
He said to me, "Zach, you can't sit around waiting for the decision to be obvious that is right. By that time, someone has beat you to it. Just decide what you are doing and do it. At least if you are wrong, you did more than the other guy." I appreciated his candor and message...
The lesson I took from it is this:
Mistakes are made daily and the correct decisions are hard to know. The only way to gain the advantage is to be the one that decides "I'm doing this because I think its what is best!"
Take action, cast aside fear and enjoy your rewards for making the DECISION to be excellent!
Zachary Barker
BlackBerryGuy Division Manager
NationLink Wireless | The BlackBerryGuys
direct | 615.207.2290
Sent to you "on the move" from my media enabled BlackBerry 8830 device.
Zachary Barker
BlackBerryGuy Division Manager
NationLink Wireless | The BlackBerryGuys
direct | 615.207.2290
Sent to you "on the move" from my media enabled BlackBerry 8830 device.
"The most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention..."
-Rachel Naomi Remen
If you were to poll 100 people, I believe the great majority would consider themselves to be a "Great Listener". How about you? When you meet someone, do you listen to what they have to say or just wait for your turn to talk? It's ok… I do it too.
Recently, I have been more focused in my efforts to listen effectively. Here is a method I have been using:
1. Ask a pointed question
2. Allow the other person to think about reply
3. Listen carefully and take notes (very critical to my success or failure)
4. Pause and consider their response
5. Reply accordingly
6. Repeat 1-5
The sooner you grow comfortable with silence – the sooner you will become a top notch listener. Your reward will be a better understanding of the needs of others (clients, colleagues, loved ones, etc). Personally, I have found the best way to ensure I "listen" properly is by taking detailed notes around a conversation. If you do not carry a pen/paper or a BlackBerry device – consider the advantages you may have in doing so and implement this tool …immediately! (I happen to know a great BlackBerryGuy too)
Side note: Thank you to everyone who sent me an email the last two days inquiring – "where is the morning motivator?" For all you with the sniffles and coughs – you understand. I do appreciate each of you for your concern.
Zachary Barker
BlackBerryGuy Division Manager
NationLink Wireless | The BlackBerryGuys
direct | 615.207.2290
Sent to you "on the move" from my media enabled BlackBerry 8830 device.
